HIS SECRET OBSESSION
How do you become His Secret Obsession? It is when you tap into a man’s most primal, inner desire… he literally becomes obsessed with you.
And even though he’s starting to feel the deepest love connection of his life, he won’t know why.
This secret flies completely under his radar. It’s a recently discovered primal drive that ALL MEN are powerfully influenced by without even knowing it. Every man you know agonizes over this primal drive more than anything else, even his sex drive.
This drive is so hard-wired in a man’s mind that it subconsciously controls everything he does, from the time he wakes up to the moment his head hits the pillow at night. It’s something I’ve come to call
WHAT IS THE HERO INSTINCT
I now believe the Hero Instinct is the biggest secret to becoming a man’s deepest passion and priority in life.
In fact, it doesn’t matter how “in love” or “infatuated” a man is if the woman he’s with doesn’t bring out his Hero Instinct he’ll always feel like something important is missing and eventually seek out a woman who knows this secret.
On the other hand, when you know how to trigger a man’s Hero Instinct his heart will be yours, and yours alone, and he’ll go to the ends of the Earth to make you happy.
How can this be possible?
It’s because the Hero Instinct is a BIOLOGICAL DRIVE…just like hunger, thirst, and sex. But once this drive is triggered, it becomes more powerful than all 3 combined. This is what makes it virtually impossible for him to ignore.
The best way for you to understand how you can use the Hero Instinct, is to see how it worked for a real woman.
RACHEL AND THE 12-WORD SECRET SIGNAL
One night, I got a call just as I was closing up the office to head home. It was Rachel. I recognized it right away…the catch in her throat…the hurt in her voice. I rushed to meet her at the Starbucks around the corner from my office.
From the running eyeliner… And the red, puffy eyes… It was obvious it was really bad this time.
She told me about Mike… Three months ago she was smitten and in love. They’d met at her best friend’s wedding and instantly hit it off. He did everything right. He surprised her with lunch at work. He called her literally every night. He planned out fun and romantic dates. And Rachel felt like she’d finally found the love she had wanted so badly for so long.
That was until three months later when something happened that every woman dreads. Rachel first noticed the signs in Mike’s voice. He was suddenly so cold, quiet and distant… And Rachel didn’t know why, or what she had done wrong.
I knew what Rachel had to do. It was a long shot, but I explained my idea to her. I told her that since Mike wasn’t answering his phone, she needed to trigger his secret obsession, or what I now call The Hero Instinct.
It was with a signal that would immediately get his attention. Even something like a text message or Facebook message would work. So I gave Rachel a simple 12-word text that she could send to Mike. And though I didn’t realize it at the time, I had just created the very first “Secret Signal”.
Hidden in those 12 innocent words was a subtle “trigger phrase” that was about to change everything.